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DON’T LIKE ME, LOVE ME

Love should be lived just like life itself.

As if it will never end and as if it may be over tomorrow.

17 March 2013 Sunday 00:01
by ÖZNUR ÇEVİK

Love should be lived just like life itself.

As if it will never end and as if it may be over tomorrow.

However, it seems people nowadays prefer to like someone, to be fond of someone, over loving someone.

Not many people believe in love anymore. At least most of the people around me don't.

Those who have been hurt by love now prefer the word "like."

Like has compassion in it, whereas love has pain, agony, grief in it.

After a few experiences with love, those who get hurt start saying that liking someone is more important. Love is like fire: when it's over all you'll have left is embers, the longest one will last about seven or eight months. Those people are after: "Come let me be fond of you, let me just like you, embrace you like no one else did and let it be lifelong."

I don't think liking someone will ever replace love, and love should never be underestimated. Both are very different, and thank God they are.

Liking someone is a different thing from loving someone.

If you love someone you will like that person anyway, but if you just like someone you can't fall in love with that person.

Liking embraces the whole world whereas when love is there, then the whole world becomes that person.

It may last for five days or seven or 35 or a thousand days.

How long it lasts doesn't matter.

What's important is what you live during those days.

This is what we should know and look after.


But one has to keep the love fresh! Love never forgives. One can't go around ugly. Your attempts to make the other person love you will never end. Whatever you do, you will do it for him or her.

Now tell me when everything is so clear, how can one say no to the passion of love and say yes to the guarantee of "I will always like you."

Isn't it the fear of losing that person which keeps the relationship alive?

So if you love someone, just hold on as if they will go any minute, just like life itself.

And I say, "Don't like me, just love me."

In any case, when it finishes, you will stay inside me.

Until next week, keep cool and healthy!


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