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TO LOVE…

Women, love to speak about love. They talk about love, they give advice, women columnists write about love, they describe love, they make comments on love, they encourage their gender to fall in love and not to be afraid of falling in love.

24 July 2011 Sunday 00:01
Women, love to speak about love. They talk about love, they give advice, women columnists write about love, they describe love, they make comments on love, they encourage their gender to fall in love and not to be afraid of falling in love.

Wouldn't it be great if everybody encouraged others to fall in love. Isn't it love that makes your day full of sunshine or makes you all sensitive and full of extraordinary feelings? Well when the situation is as such, of course its pain will be as strong. There will be showers, unanswered expectations, heartaches.

So what? When one thinks of the great times to be spent, the other side of the medallion should be ignored.

Unfortunately letting falling in love TO one side, it is even harder for people to like each other these days.

There are those who keep on saying they will never fall in love again but is it possible to avoid? You may go somewhere for a business appointment, waiting to be received , someone you expect the least walks into the room and there it is. Bang! You can't do anything to avoid the chemistry. Your heart flips. Eyes meet. One of the sides start a conversation and you meet. Can you stop it from happening? Even if you try you cannot. It starts to grow and goes on growing. There it is.

Love may hit you anywhere. On the street, at a supermarket, at the bus stop or even in the elevator. But being afraid of the mysteries it might bring, will take you nowhere. So when it happens just let it be.

I believe people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you know which one it is , you will know what to do for that person.

When you fall in love that person is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die- either physically or mentally.

Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, to grow or to learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

Lifetime relations teach you lifetime lessons, things… you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lessons, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, so just let it be.

Until next week keep cool and healthy!


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